Selfish People

Matlbhi! Matlbhi se hi appko smjh aagye hoga ki keya hai? Acha. Ek baat puch thi hu ki keya app log kabhi bhi zindagi me selfish bane ho.. aur agar bane ho to q.. kisiliye bane ho q ki mera hisab se agar hum selfish bante hai to useke piche kuch reasons hoti hai.. to app log ka keya reasons hoga selfish bane ka? Ek baat bolu life me har ek insaan matlbhi hota h . Q ki uske piche reasons hote hai..kuch log matlbhi isliya hota ha q ki unkho appna kam niklna hota hai or kuch isliya hote hai unkho appni khushi dekhani hoti hai...Dekha jaye to sab appni jagha par sahi bhi hai..ab har insaan bar bar dusro ki khushi or khawaish to puri nhi kar sakta hai na... dekha jaye to family bhi matlbhi hoti hai kuch jaghao par jaise ki...Ek maa baap matlbhi isliya banete hai q ki age ja kar unkhe bache unkho Dekha...ek dost appna dost ki help isliya karta hoga ki useme useka kuch reasons hoga..to yaha is life me har koe appna matlb ke liya dusro ki help karta hai...lekin keya koe agar appna khushi ke liya ek bar khud ke liya matlbhi ban jaye to...yeh duniya to duniya isse se phle appke dost parivar relatives yeh sab appke jaan ke piche bade jayega..appke emotionally blackmail krega...or na jane kya kya dialogues bolega..badme app emotionally mana gye to phir thik aur agar nehi to ek last dialogu nikl gaya mera ghar se taki bache dar ke mare unkhi bat mana jaye mostly yeh wala dialogues to ladko ke liya hota hai par ladkiyo ke liya tumhari shadi karadu tho shidha hojaoge...lekin mai yeh manti hu ki dusro ki khushi kab tak dekhoga..khud ki bhi ek life hai...to ek bar appni khushi bhi dekhana jaurui hai na...nhi to badme bhagwan ko doshi khaoga...upar wala bhi bolega ki itna q meharbaan ho rahe tha tu..ek bar matlbhi ban ja tha to kya ja tha tera... Dosto...zindagi me hamesha yeh baat yaad rakhena ki dusro ko khushi dekho par ek bar khud ki bhi khushi bhi deklo jaha appko sache me dil se lag tha hai ki yaha meri khushi hai..lekin meri khushi dusro ko taklif de rahi hai to use waqta emotionally nhi bus dil ki baat suno or woh karo jo khud ko khushi de..qki zindagi tumhari bhi hai or unkhi bhi ha..to woh kahi na kahi se khushi dhundhe lega...lekin use phle appni khushi phle dhundho...qki zindagi har bar moka nhi deti...mai bhi selfish bani hu sab ki khushi dekha the dekhate appni khushi kahi na kahi bhule gayi thi...to jab mili to kas ke pakda li...logo na bahot kuch bole or na jane kya kya bole..lekin log nhi aate jab mai mushibat me hoti hu parivar aata hai par kuch ase mushibat hote hai ki parivar bhi saath chode deta hai...lekin...mai bhi selfish bana gayi qki meri khushi mera aakho ke samna khadi thi.. Haa hu mai selfish..appni khushi ke liya bani hu...lekin jo bhi hu dusro ki taraha to nhi hu..kam se kam mein appni zindagi kharab to nhi ki...rahi baat family ki ek din unkhe bhi ehsaas hoga ki app galat nhi te...dosto zindagi me kabhi moka mile to bana ja matlbhi....matlbhi jisena khud ki khushi dekhi hai lekin sath me dusro ki bhi...to kya farak padhtha hai ek bar bane me....Matlbhi....